Thursday, May 9, 2013

To skip or not to skip a grade?


Question: "Should I skip my fourth grader?" 
 I have a fourth grader who is capable of doing school work above her level. 
 I am considering having her skip 5th grade.  My question is:  Do I need to some 
sort of documentation that she skipped a grade or a test to prove that she can
 do 6th grade work?
 
If you wanted to skip a grade, you would take the grade test at 
the end of the year that you were attempting to pass your child 
out of. So if they are in 3rd grade, but will be in 5th grade
 next year, they need to take the 4th grade test at the end of 
this year. Thus, passing out of 4th grade will put your child 
in 5th grade the next year. 
  And no, noone notices at the office where you turn stuff in.
 Don't make a big deal out of it.  Don't do two test, one from
 each year, just do the one test and turn in those results.  

Now, I agree with the last person who piped up about skipping.
 In public school, it's important because your child will only
 be able to take certain classes that help challenge them or
 be available for courses reserved for certain tracks if they
 are in certain grades, but in homeschooling we don't have that!  
 There are pros and cons associated with skipping that should 
be considered-

Pro- your child is eligible for summer programs reserved for 
certain grades. Because the world moves on ps grades, your 
child will have access to more advanced learning that meets
 their level sooner.
Con- that advantage ends at 15. When they get older, the 
coolest and best program are reserved by age because of 
liability and insurance and will only take 16 year olds or 
older. Now you could back your child up a year and say they
 were a junior in their senior year, but if they truly had 
a senior year, they will be in college, not going to camps.
 So you've missed all the best programs and the chance for 
your child to explore meaningful avenues for growth in their
 prospective fields.  
 
Con- internships-I don't know how these brilliant 14 and 
15yr olds I hear on the tv and radio get into their
 internships at major colleges and scientific labs because
 here on the peninsula, you're 16 or not allowed on the
 premisses in an internship capacity. :( I've had at 
least three different professionals willing and eager
 to mentor my child, but she was not old at any of the 
facilities to be allowed to intern! That's just the way 
it is. VLM will take some 15 year olds, but they don't 
have the great, cool jobs, they have the "stand here and
 talk to children" internships, which can be fun but not
 what you're budding herpetologist really wanted to do 
at the museum.
Pro- none.

Pro- your child is eligible for TNCC in their junior year
 of highschool. "13 and a junior, Welcome to campus!" 
Con- (This one isn't so much a "con" as a warning.) They're
 a smart cookie, but are they ready for the rigor of 
college classes? Maybe. But those grades are permanent.
 Best case scenario, they don't do well & you figure it
 out before the "add/drop" date and are out money, but not
 have not tarnished your child's chance at the future 
college of their choice by getting bad grades a cc!  

Pro- (and a light one at that) "everybody" knows how smart
 little Susy is because she got skipped. 
Con- unfortunately, ppl who don't like hsing anyway will
 say you did it without cause, and not many hsers care 
either way. 

 I know about these pros and cons because my dd skipped 
7th grade. She's now a 15 your old junior who just made 
the decision to do a 5 year highschool. (She'll be a senior
 twice, though it hardly matters what we call this weird,
 interim year.)  The reasons that seemed compelling in 
the beginning have all faded away now. And she came to 
the long, thought out conclusion that she didn't want to
 move away to college  next year to pursue her goal of
 becoming a forensic scientist. She wants to be at home 
a little longer and wants to take advantage of some 
camps that she didn't apply for this year, and one that
 wait-listed her- but encouraged her to try next year. 
She'll take a few classes this coming fall at TNCC, and
 take all her courses at TNCC her final senior year. She
 was eligible this year for classes there as a junior and
 asked not to take them yet.
And that's the other side of this beautiful coin, if 
you skip and find skipping isn't what you or she wants
 to do later, then "unskip" :) Take all the time you need!
 Skip, don't skip. Somehow it all kinda turns out the same :)
Good luck figuring out what you want to do, 
Brandy

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